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Sarah's father, Nathan Kassarich, was the son of Itzhak
and Dovrish, the youngest of 4 children -
They lived in Lyubar, in Volhyna Gobernia (county) in Russia, (near Odessa, according to Sarah) in what is now the Ukraine. Lyubar is a small town at 49(55'N, 27(45'E, 127 miles wsw of Kiev, 11 1/2 miles from Ostropol'. (See map and photo which includes both Lyubar and Ostropol'). They lived on a hillside, with entrances on two floors, like our house on Fairview Road. In the business floor of the house, cousin Pessel ran a tavern for the coZAKS (Cossacks), while Bathsheba had a grocery store.
Hinda's brother, Zaidel, was a druggist in Ostropolya, Russia. (Now Ostropol', a small town at 49(45' N, 27(34'E, 138 miles wsw of Kiev, in Ukraine)
[Additional information on the Einhorn family from Marian E Gornick, 2005 07 19]
Rebecca (Bathsheba) and Nathan KassarichRebecca (Bathsheba) followed her husband directly to Philadelphia, with their first 3 children, Sarah, Itzhak (Issie), and the baby, Ben. According to the 1910 Census, he came in 1906, while she followed the next year, when Sarah was 7.
When was Sarah Born?
Officially, April 16, 1900. Of course, there are no papers from Ostropol' or Lyubar to prove or disprove this. When she was 99, Sarah decided that she or her parents had added two years to her age so that she could work. Presumably this was during World War I, when she went to work at Reinish. As corroboration, Sarah says she was 16 at the time of the flu epidemic in October 1918, which would mean that she was born in 1902.
The 1910 Census for 343 N. 6th St. says that Sarah was 10 years old, "Isadore" was 8, and "Bennie" was 4. (See details on another page.) This would mean that she was born in 1900, and may be the source for the official date.
How about the date of April 16? Sarah remembers it as "the second day of Passover," which is Nisan 17, 5660 or 5662. In 1900, that would have been April 15 or 16, and in 1902, April 23 or 24 (depending on which calendar program I use). But in Russia, they used the Julian calendar at that time, which would make her birthday Apr 3, 1900 or Apr 11, 1902.
At any rate she lived more than a century! (But her marriage license says
she was born "Apl 16, 1905." Claiming to be younger and fresher?)
Maurice Schaffer's Family
(Maurice on all papers except his naturalization, including courting letters to Sarah, but always pronounced Morris)
Maurice's father - Sarah has no information. Maurice's gravestone says his father's name was Yechiel. Maurice & Sarah's marriage license says his name was William.
Sarah's version: His mother, Rifka, married young. She had a daughter, who disappeared, and Maurice. After her husband died, she married Zeebooker, who changed his name to Brooks. Their children were Kay and Lew. Kay met Frank Poetzl when she worked at the Trenton Hotel where he was maitre'd. Presumably this was when the family was living in Newark, where Lew met his wife, Bert. On Maurice & Sarah's marriage license, she's Rebecca, maiden name Raivy, a housewife living with Maurice. Her grave in Montefiore says she died October 3, 1931, age 56. On the stone, she's Rebecca Schaffer-Brooks, with Hebrew name Rebecca Rachel, daughter of Moshe.
Bert Brooks' version: Rivka married young to a man she despised; they had a daughter. Rivka wanted to divorce her husband. He agreed to the divorce only on the condition that he get custody of the daughter. Later ex-husband and daughter were killed in a pogrom.
She then married Lipovetsky and had Maurice (who later changed his name to Schaffer). Her second husband also died in Europe.
Her third marriage was to Ellie (Eliyahu) Zebooker, a widower with three teenage children (Fanny, George, and Ben). After Kay was born in Byelosvetgrad, Ukraine, they came to America. Here Rivka had a boy, Lewis (Laib) and within the year became a widow once more. Ben, and then the other Zebookers, changed their name to Brooks.
In summary, Rivka's children were
The Brooks Family lived at 5441 Arlington St. in Wynnefield.
Lew and Bert were married in Newark in 1931. Lew died in January 1957, age 47.
Bert Brooks' family: (thanks to Bert and Howard for several corrections and additions)
Jake Suckno and his brothers took the name"Suckno" in Ellis Island on arriving here from Poland. The family name in Poland was "Kechuba" (spelling unknown) "Suckno" is the Polish word for "pants tailor" the family occupation there.
Lew and Bert's children and grandchildren
Ravi, Carner, Verbit
Rifka's brother (Maurice's uncle) was Jake Ravi. (Jacob Raivy died March 16, 1934, at age 69, according to his tombstone in Montefiore. His wife Sarah died December 30, 1947, at age 82.)
Ellis Freedman e-mails: "Rena Carner never lived in the northeast. She had an apartment in Logan. Naomi Rose didn't use the money from Rena's properties to buy her house in Doylestown. She used the money that she and Dave received from selling their house in Jamaica Plains, NY." (Freedman has an off-line file with the genealogy of the Raivy family.)
Sarah and Maurice
When Sam Einhorn's cousin [sister] Slata (whose husband was related to Philip Carner) was visiting the Kassarichs, she met Sarah, who was with a date. Slata sent her cousin Rena Carner, Maurice's first cousin, to look Sarah over. Maurice's family had recently moved to Ridgwood Ave. in Newark, to break up Maurice's romance with a nurse. Apparently Rena liked what she saw, since she arranged to bring Maurice to dinner with Sarah's family on New Year's Day. The Kassarich family lived at 29th & Dauphin, with a dining room and kitchen behind their grocery store. Sarah was out late at a New Year's Eve party at Sarah Greenfield's house and planned to sleep all New Year's Day, but her family got her up for this dinner. Sarah came down to a good chicken dinner, and was smitten. On their first date, Maurice gave Sarah a box of Whitman's Sampler. Maurice's letters to Sarah are addressed to "Sally" and signed "Maurice Schaffer." They were engaged at Easter, and married on September 7th 1930.
|The certificate signed by Rabbi Z Bugash says that on September 7th, 1930 he married Mourrice Schffer and Sarah Kass.||Philadelphia marriage license no. 592951 issued 2 Sep 1930 says Maurice, 35, a grocer, lived at 5101 Funston St, while Sarah Kass (!), 25 (!), a forelady (!), lived at 2917 W. Dauphin St.|
Maurice had $2000; he used $200 of it to buy a ring - under 1 carat. After one night at the Ravi apartment, they honeymooned at a boarding house in Atlantic City that belonged to the mother of Lew Brooks' friend from Atlantic City days, Abe(?) Mandell.
Maurice's mother gave her apartment to her daughter Kay and Kay's husband Frank and lived alternately with each of her children, though she only lived a short while after Maurice and Sarah were married. They lived at 5101 Funston St (51st & Brown), where Maurice had a store. Sarah cleaned and washed, but her mother in law cooked when she was there.
On March 8th, 1933, age 32, "Morris Schaffer" became a citizen of the USA. The naturalization certificate lists his height as 5 feet 7 inches; weight 185 pounds. On the back of the certificate, this is typed:
Name changed by Order of Court March 8, 1933 as
a part of the naturalization
from - Moischa Lipovetsky
to - Morris Schaffer
Maurice's mother had a store next to a drug store at Delaware Ave & Pacific in Atlantic City, where Maurice was a lifeguard one summer.
When Gloria was born, Maurice decided that they needed a bigger place, which he could afford since he "had a few thousand." Mr. Cohen, the wholesaler's salesman, recommended a store at 2900 S. 62nd St. Maurice got up early to see how many customers went in the store. Apparently he was satisfied, so they moved when Gloria was a year old. Sarah's brother, Issie, took over the store on Brown St. (Issie had worked at Stetson, where he was injured in an elevator accident.) "Shuster the butcher" from Woodland Ave. delivered kosher meat for the family to his friend Maurice, whom he called "Moishele".
Later, Maurice bought the building at a sheriff's sale, for cash, rather than lose the store.
Gloria remembers that Maurice took his family for summer vacation to a nearby boarding house on States Ave, run by Mrs. Barret. Mrs Barret's daughter Sarah limped badly, the result of attempting suicide by jumping out the window because her family objected to her boyfriend. Sarah's custom was to leave her two children in the morning to get them some milk and cake for breakfast, and sandwich makings to take to the beach. While she was out, she would sit down for her own breakfast. Each night they would go out for dinner, and Gloria would fall asleep at the table.
Much later, Maurice bought a black Pontiac, also for cash, and Sarah's brother Lou taught Bob how to drive.
Sarah became a citizen on March 22, 1949.
Her height is listed as 5 feet 1½ inches;
her weight at 145 pounds.
On November 20th 1950, Sarah told Maurice to close the store early, (his usual hours were 6 am to 11 pm) since there were lots of orders in the store, ready for Thanksgiving. She was only preparing a plain dinner of hot dogs, because she was busy baking strudel. Maurice came up the stairs from the store complaining of not feeling well. He went upstairs to lie down, but came down shortly for Alka Seltzer. He sat down on the couch and presently keeled over - and died without a doctor. Bob was 18, Gloria was 14. He died without a will. Lou Kassarich, Sarah's younger brother, handled the estate; Gloria inherited $800.
Sarah's mother had a stroke on hearing the news and died two weeks later.
Bob took over the store and the family, keeping the store open (and keeping himself out of the army as sole support for his family) till he graduated from law school. In contrast, when Gloria later worked at Central-Penn National Bank and elsewhere, she used her earnings to buy nice clothes.
After Maurice died, Artie the milkman came courting Sarah, dressed up in a green shirt. He became friendly with Bob, but didn't get anywhere with Sarah.
Sarah lived on 62nd St. until 1988 (or maybe 1989), when she fell and broke her hip. The hip was pinned and then, when the pins didn't hold, replaced. After rehabilitation at Moss Hospital and in Bryn Mawr, she moved to York House, then the Philadelphia Geriatric Center next door, then the Abramson Center in North Wales PA, where she died on May 25, 2002.
She was buried next to Maurice at Montefiore Cemetery, in Section N, Lot 740, Grave 3, on May 28. It's just off Maple Ave, 9 rows before Pennsylvania Ave, under a pear tree. Sarah bought this lot in 1952 for $100 plus 1.50 registration fee. The record of the purchase was always with her important papers. (The cemetery planned to bury her next to an older Maurice Schaffer about 50 yards away!)
Sarah's crowd at 29th and Dauphin included Dorothy Goldman, Rose Rosoff, Helen and Sarah Greenfield. They went to dances in suits that they bought from a tailor at 16th & Ridge. Rose Rosoff's husband, Buschel, is Murray Saltzman's uncle. Much later, Rose lived at 2601 Parkway, while Sarah Greenfield lived at Park Towne Place.
Sarah is at the top of this photo.
Hebrew Names, as remembered by Sarah:
Sarah's Rabbi at PGC and at her funeral was Shiela Segal. Her doctor was Susan Denman.
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